Ownership Submission
FORM 4
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UNITED STATES SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION
Washington, D.C. 20549

STATEMENT OF CHANGES IN BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP OF SECURITIES

Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, Section 17(a) of the Public Utility Holding Company Act of 1935 or Section 30(h) of the Investment Company Act of 1940
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(Print or Type Responses)
1. Name and Address of Reporting Person *
LYBARGER STANLEY A
   2. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol
BOK FINANCIAL CORP ET AL [BOKF] 		5. Relationship of Reporting Person(s) to Issuer
(Check all applicable)
__X__ Director _____ 10% Owner
__X__ Officer (give title below) _____ Other (specify below)
President & CEO
(Last)
(First)
(Middle)
C/O FREDERIC DORWART, 124 E FOURTH STREET		 3. Date of Earliest Transaction (Month/Day/Year)
03/28/2013
(Street)

TULSA, OK 74103		 4. If Amendment, Date Original Filed(Month/Day/Year)
 6. Individual or Joint/Group Filing(Check Applicable Line)
_X_ Form filed by One Reporting Person
___ Form filed by More than One Reporting Person
(City)
(State)
(Zip)
Table I - Non-Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned
1.Title of Security
(Instr. 3)		 2. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year) 2A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year) 3. Transaction Code
(Instr. 8)		 4. Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed of (D)
(Instr. 3, 4 and 5)		 5. Amount of Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s)
(Instr. 3 and 4)		 6. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I)
(Instr. 4)		 7. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership
(Instr. 4)
Code V Amount (A) or (D) Price
Common Stock 03/28/2013   M   26,498 A $ 55.94 76,396 D  
Common Stock 03/28/2013   F   25,070 D $ 62.3 51,326 D  

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Table II - Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned
(e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities)
1. Title of Derivative Security
(Instr. 3)		 2. Conversion or Exercise Price of Derivative Security 3. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year) 3A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year) 4. Transaction Code
(Instr. 8)		 5. Number of Derivative Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed of (D)
(Instr. 3, 4, and 5)		 6. Date Exercisable and Expiration Date
(Month/Day/Year)		 7. Title and Amount of Underlying Securities
(Instr. 3 and 4)		 8. Price of Derivative Security
(Instr. 5)		 9. Number of Derivative Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s)
(Instr. 4)		 10. Ownership Form of Derivative Security: Direct (D) or Indirect (I)
(Instr. 4)		 11. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership
(Instr. 4)
Code V (A) (D) Date Exercisable Expiration Date Title Amount or Number of Shares
2005 Stock Options $ 47.05 03/28/2013   M     11,196   (1)   (2) Common Stock 11,196 $ 0 0 D  
Phantom Stock (3) 03/28/2013   A   11,196     (4)(6)   (4)(6) Common Stock 11,196 $ 47.05 86,583 D  
Phantom Stock (3) 03/28/2013   D     8,456   (4)(6)   (4)(6) Common Stock 8,456 $ 62.3 78,127 D  
2006 Stock Options $ 54.33 03/28/2013   M     17,439   (1)   (2) Common Stock 17,439 $ 0 0 D  
Phantom Stock (3) 03/28/2013   A   17,439     (5)(6)   (5)(6) Common Stock 17,439 $ 54.33 95,566 D  
Phantom Stock (3) 03/28/2013   D     15,209   (5)(6)   (5)(6) Common Stock 15,209 $ 62.3 80,357 D  
Phantom Stock (3) 03/28/2013   D     4,970   (7)   (7) Common Stock 4,970 $ 62.3 75,387 D  
2010 Stock Options $ 55.94 03/28/2013   M     26,498   (1)   (2) Common Stock 26,498 $ 0 0 D  

Reporting Owners

Reporting Owner Name / Address Relationships
 Director  10% Owner  Officer  Other
LYBARGER STANLEY A
C/O FREDERIC DORWART
124 E FOURTH STREET
TULSA, OK 74103		   X     President & CEO  

Signatures

 /s/ Frederic Dorwart, Power of Attorney   04/01/2013
**Signature of Reporting Person Date

Explanation of Responses:

* If the form is filed by more than one reporting person, see Instruction 4(b)(v).
** Intentional misstatements or omissions of facts constitute Federal Criminal Violations. See 18 U.S.C. 1001 and 15 U.S.C. 78ff(a).
(1) For options granted in any one year, one-seventh of the options of such grant vest and become exercisable on the grant date of the anniversary each year commencing on the first anniversary after the grant.
(2) Options expire 3 years after vesting.
(3) Each share of Phantom Stock represents a right to receive one share of Common Stock, or at the Company's election, the cash value thereof.
(4) The reporting person elected to defer receipt of 11,196 shares of common stock issuable upon the exercise of stock options. 8,456 of the deferred shares were used to pay the exercise price and taxes on the options.
(5) The reporting person elected to defer receipt of 17,439 shares of common stock issuable upon the exercise of stock options. 15,209 of the deferred shares were used to pay the exercise price and taxes on the options.
(6) The Phantom Stock becomes payable upon the reporting person's termination of employment with the company.
(7) The reporting person elected to diversify the 4,970 shares of BOKF phantom stock remaining after payment of the exercise price and taxes to alternative investments.

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